Thursday, February 13, 2014

My Supports

I have emotional supports, practical supports, and physical supports. My husband provides emotional support to me. He is there to help me do things around the house. He helps me with our two year old daughter. He provides financial support by working and helping to pay our bills. If I did not have my husband, I would have to do every thing on my own. I would not have the house that I have now. I would not have my daughter. I would have to live with my parents because I would not have been able to afford to have a house of my own.

Technology is another source of support that I use everyday. I use my phone to communicate with others. I use my computer to communicate, pay bills, do my taxes, and school work. The technology that I use helps me to accomplish tasks much quicker than I would without them. I would have to find other ways to accomplish tasks without the use of my computer and phone. Some of these tasks would take much longer to complete and would cost more money.

I chose the challenge of being blind. I chose this because my grandmother was legally blind before she died. My dad has an eye disease that makes it likely that he will become blind later. I would want emotional support from family and friends. I would like practical support such as tools to make life a little easier. A walking stick and seeing eye dog would be nice tools to help me get around better. A ramp would also make things a little easier because I would not have to go up and down steps at my house. Physical support such as family helping me to do tasks around the house. I feel it would be very difficult to be blind without these physical, emotional, and practical supports. Without these supports I would have to find ways to get around by myself. I would definitely feel overwhelmed and would need to rely on my senses of hearing and touch to help me get through many tasks during the day.


4 comments:

  1. You are lucky to have such a great support system, there are so many individuals without supports in today's society. Having a spouse there along with your little girl is wonderful emotional support, though sometimes the emotional support system is the reason that we need the support. It's wonderful to have an opportunity to stop and realize the supports that we have and also areas that we may need to bump up our support system.

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  2. Crystal,
    After reading your post, I found out some new things about you. Wow, I am glad you have a husband to help you with all of the things in your life. You do need help with your child, and I am glad your husband is there to support you with this and other things. I recognize that you would have family support available to you if you really needed them. You took a different approach from me when writing about your supports. I never would have thought to include technology in my supports; that was a great idea. Technology makes me crazy so, it would have been the last thing I would have discussed. I am glad you discussed it because, so many of us use technology everyday in some form or fashion; if we did not have technology to support us daily, we would be so far behind the rest of the world. When you discussed your life challenge, it touched my heart. I know I have thought about what it would be like to be blind. Your story about your grandma and your father is amazing. Both of them are or have had to deal with issues of the eye. Our eyesight is very important, and I know it is hard on you and your family to deal with this challenge. Thanks for sharing your supports with the world and me.

    Lah-Lah

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  3. Hello Crystal,

    Great post! It is great to know that your husband is a huge supporter in your life also!!! Our support system is there to encourage and support us whenever we need them. When we are going through tough times or any other situation, our support system is always there to make sure we are okay. We all need someone to turn to, so having a great support system can be very beneficial.

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  4. Great post, and thank you so much for sharing this with us. I have noticed that a lot of people did put it down and I didn't realize the support I do use technology until reading others post. I also wonder what I would be doing and others if we never had this technology right now. It is a very simple thing that we might take advantage right now and who knows what could happen to us tomorrow. How do you might thin your life would be different then it is right without technology.

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